Be transparent. If you are the one who has cheated, be prepared to field questions from your spouse. After getting over the initial shock of learning you have been unfaithful, your husband or wife may want to know the details such as how you met the person or people you cheated with, how long you were cheating, and what the nature of your interactions was. Understandably, your spouse will likely find it difficult to trust you again immediately, if ever. If you are genuinely interested in rebuilding that trust, it is not unheard of for a jilted spouse to request access to your email, texts, and social media accounts. Give it to them. Your partner needs to see you are devoted to them and only them.
