'I'm married to a man who is universally hotter than me and it's harder to live with than I originally thought,' Ms Barber, who regularly refers to her beau as #hothusband online, wrote in a post for Daily Life.She explained how she met her Maori husband 13 years ago when he had dreadlocks, and that even after he shaved his head 'he is still amazing.' 'The kind of amazing that brings elderly, long-sighted strangers across busy streets as they feel compelled to let me know I've done pretty well for myself,' she said.