Why do Unfaithful Husbands Want Their Spouses to Stay?

He doesn’t want to go through the pain of getting a divorce.

The word “divorce” evokes millions of bad emotions and associations. It involves dealing with lawyers, fighting, splitting property, and negotiating about time management for children. Some men may prefer to leave everything like it is just so they don’t have to go through the tears, anger, and yelling that comes with this experience. Even if there is no healthy relationship anymore, it is just easier to find a lover.