What Do You See First? What You Choose Says A Lot About You

A face or dancers?

When you approach an issue defensively, you resonate with one or more survival fears. Your thoughts about spending time together, as a result, do not produce happy images in your mind of your partner welcoming your inputs, as they did, when you first met, right? Instead, these thoughts likely create fear-inducing images , perhaps, of your partner dismissing, arguing back or withdrawing from you. Simply put, what you think about inside expands to create life around you – through the power of the emotions it causes.