Knowing if a guy is genuine or a player is easy. A genuine guy doesn’t try to impress you with expensive or flashy gifts, just to get you to say yes to him or fall for him. However, a player does this stuff to get your attention quickly, so he can move on quickly. He gives with ulterior motives; to impress you and to get something in return.A genuine guy is always patient. He tries to understand your feelings, see things from your point of view and he won’t be in haste. Furthermore, a genuine guy will try to put the needs of your relationship above their personal needs.