When we compare ourselves with others, we often aim to pretend we are something that we aren’t. We want people to think we’re better than we are, so we certainly cannot ask for help because that would be to admit that we aren’t what we pretend to be. Once you stop comparing yourself to others, you can actually ask those who are ahead of you for some advice..Once you free your mind of thoughts of comparison, you can get those creative juices flowing. We are our most creative when we aren’t worrying about something