7 tips on how to get through a family gathering

Avoid Confrontation
If your sister-in-law always puts you or your child down, she'll probably do it again. Just be prepared with a response that will reframe the situation, subtly reminding her that her comments are offensive without creating a family feud. For instance, if she once again exclaims how tall your daughter is, meaning too tall, you can respond, "Yes, isn't she gorgeous!"