The Real 14 Reasons Why Men Cheat
They're seeking validation.
Feelings of insecurity and low self-esteem can also drive someone to cheat, particularly if they're not getting that validation in their own relationship, Page and Birkel note. "If people don't feel attractive enough to their partner, they may cheat to look for external validation," Page explains. He adds that ....issues (such as ....) can also drive someone to "look for someone newer and more exciting to prove to themselves that they're still ....potent and capable."
