What Keeping Secrets Does to Your Marriage
Thinking about cheating
That crush… what if you were thinking about acting on that crush? Would you keep it a secret? The first person you need to be honest with is yourself. You need to figure out if you are just fantasizing or if you’re figuring out something about your current relationship — plus the consequences if you do act on this. Relationships experts don’t recommend saying “I’m thinking about cheating on you,” but it is worth sharing if you feel your relationship needs to bet strengthened. (Don’t worry. That cheating secret, we’ll talk about that soon.)
