Keep things under wraps by telling only the people you absolutely need to, such as your vendors and their staff. “Hiring a great team of professionals will be key since you won’t be able to ask bridesmaids or family to assist,” says Valorie Darling of Valorie Darling Photography. “And sharing the secret with your parents is a good idea if you’re worried about how they may react on the big day. Plus, they might be happy to be part of the planning.”