At the end of the day this is not about gender, it's about humanity, and how we treat our fellow man, woman or, for that matter, anyone in-between.That said, there is a small minority of the trans community whose motives and modus operandi I really can't fathom.For example, I don't understand why, if you have functioning male genitalia and enjoy having sex with women, you would prefer to identify as a trans lesbian instead of a man. It just seems like a lot of time and effort and heartache to achieve, in the end, the same result.