Get support with the parts of your life you wish to improve on. Invest in your own personal growth and well-being. Do more of what you enjoy doing. Get that gym membership you've been slacking on, look into a therapist or personal coach, take a vacation you've been wanting to go on, get a massage, read a great personal development book - just do something. If you're not taking the necessary steps to get through your personal challenges, the road ahead may not seem so uplifting. You should be living your best life; anything else is mediocre - and you are not in this world to be mediocre.