He adds, "As wonderful as those opportunities sound, it can be very hard on a partner that didn't sign up to be married to the sexiest man alive. Look at Bradley Cooper. He had a bit part on
Sex and the City and then he was the star of 'The Hangover' and that's a massive change." Your partner evolves just like you do. For this reason, it's essential to keep checking in with each other to make sure your needs and wants are aligned. Stay curious about your S.O. and don't make assumptions that he feels exactly the same about your lifestyle or his job as he did when you first met.