That month, photos appeared of Lopez and Affleck hanging out in Los Angeles, followed by more photos of the two canoodling all over the country. The “Marry Me” actress showed off a giant emerald engagement ring in April via her fan newsletter, “On The JLo” revealing that he had proposed while she was in the bath. “We did it. Love is beautiful. Love is kind. And it turns out love is patient. Twenty years patient,” Lopez gushed after the nuptials.