This Woman Proved You Don’t Have To Be Skinny To Look Good

Ask yourself this: Why do you want to look different? Most likely, it's because you want other people to like you, and you believe looking a certain way will make you more loved and accepted. "We are sold this idea that looking a certain way will bring us approval, affection, love, respect, value, etc.," Kara Loewentheil, J.D., a former women's rights lawyer who now coaches women dealing with insecurity, tells mbg. "But the whole thing is a myth. Looking a certain way will not make you happy.