If you’re constantly feeling disappointed with your partner for Valentine’s Day, anniversaries, birthdays, or how they treat you on an average weeknight, consider having a discussion. It’s important that your partner understands your needs and expectations for how those needs will be met in the relationship. On the other hand, it’s also important that you understand your partner’s physical, emotional, and even financial limits. There may be less taxing (and thus easier) ways for your partner to meet your needs – and vice versa!