It’s tempting to see the worst in ourselves, to feel self-conscious, and to say, “no, I don’t want my picture taken.” But when you take a step back and realize these pictures are ultimately about the memories you create with your family and friends, suddenly, you realize how important it is to be in those photographs. Enjoy your moment with your family while someone else worries about depths of field, shutter speed, light passing through their image sensor and all those other technical aspects.