You are more invested in activities that please you, the less time you give her, the more distorted she starts to feel about the relationship. We, women, want to be a priority; we don’t want to be treated as a convenience. If you’re going to be left alone, she will show resistance to a certain extent, after that she will seriously consider that you should be left alone for good. There is no “I” in a relationship. Remember, a link is an amalgamation of things, connected, giving you both reasons to hold on to one another. If these connections don’t exist anymore, your lady will no longer feel inclined to stay by your side.