These things wreak havoc on a marriage as one or both partners desperately grasp at coping mechanisms to get them through day after difficult day. For them, life is not a fairy tale. And sometimes, it’s a hell. If you take anything away from this kind of celebrity breakdown, let it be this: don’t be afraid to seek outside help when the pressures of life, employment, or family begin to wear you down. And just as importantly, support one another—identify areas of discomfort and pressure, and work together to overcome them. You and your spouse are one another’s greatest refuge. Don’t forget that.