Each event should be personalized to your actual style, comfort level, and budget. There are a few things, however, that you absolutely shouldn't skip when preparing for this particular party. Be sure to host the event in a space where you and your new fiancé can greet guests personally—they're there for you (and to hear that sweet proposal story!), after all. When it comes time for speeches, be sure to toast the host, whether that be your parents, a friend, or a soon-to-be-in-law. You want to thank them for kicking off your wedding whirlwind with gusto!