There are strategies that you can use in your own life to show unconditional love to your partner and other important people in your life. Tips that can help: Practice open communication so that both of your needs can be met. This means being honest about what you are feeling and actively listening and responding to your partner. Communicate in a non-defensive way. Express your feelings while listening and taking the other person's feelings into account. Don't let the little annoyances of life override your love. Unconditional love means seeing past the squabbles about the little things in life. If you commit to love that is larger than those things, you will have staying power. Share power in your relationship. No one person should get everything they want, or this will lead to resentment by the other person. Pay attention to how you express your love. Unconditional love is given wholeheartedly without keeping score or feeling like the other person "owes" you something in return.