
Have an open conversation with your new partner. Remarrying doesn’t mean forgetting. Falling in love with someone after your spouse dies doesn’t mean that you’ve forgotten your spouse or have entirely moved on. All it means is that you’ve fallen in love with someone else. You’ll likely still think of your former spouse and miss them, and that’s perfectly normal. Just make sure your new spouse understands. Talk to your current or future spouse about your feelings. You could say, “I love you very much, but there is a piece of my heart that will always belong to my former partner. This doesn’t take away from how much I love you, but I just wanted you to know that there are times when I miss them.” Getting this out in the open before you get married could prevent arguments and misunderstandings. Your new partner’s reaction may also show if you should marry them or not