Atash Khayyer, a movie actor who died at the age of 34

Even when you’re prepared with something to say about cancer, it might not be what’s needed at the moment. Every day is different. Every person is different. Every cancer diagnosis, treatment, and experience is unique.

Be careful not to equate your own experience or someone else’s with the person you’re talking to. That can make their experience feel diminished, even when that’s not what you intend..