Dealing with thugs in Tehran

Communicate positive messages. Let your children know you care about them, believe in them, and accept them. Help them identify and improve their strengths and talents. Direct your children toward healthy activities, and find ways for them to be successful at what they enjoy. Praise them for their accomplishments, and always make sure that they understand how important they are to your family.

Avoid scare tactics. Young people who are interested in or involved in gangs usually won’t be frightened away from their loyalties. They may see only the positive, short-term benefits of their actions. Calmly discuss the long-term consequences and realities of gang life: prison, serious injury, and even death. Back up what you say with facts. Talk about how decisions today can affect their future.