Consider your partner’s personality. Is your partner similar to you in most ways, or are they the exact opposite of you? Research has found that, in long-term relationships, couples who are more similar tend to be more successful in long-term relationships.
- To do this, you really have to be honest with yourself. How similar are your values, goals, and beliefs? Do you enjoy doing a few of the same things?
- If you are in the early stages of a relationship, it may be difficult to do this honestly. If you are having trouble, consider asking a friend to help you identify the ways you are similar and the ways you are different.