3. Choose a burial or cremation: If you choose burial, you will need to select a cemetery and purchase a plot. If you choose cremation, you will need to decide on the final resting place for the ashes. 4. Plan the details: Work with the funeral home to plan the details of the service, including the date and time, location, officiant, and any readings or music you would like to include. 5. Notify friends and family: Once the details are in place, you will need to notify friends and family about the funeral arrangements.