Remembering Jaklin Viguen: A Life Well-Lived

How to Pacify and Calm the Grieving
Pacifying someone who is grieving is not about fixing their pain, but about providing a sense of calm and safety. When they are overwhelmed, a gentle touch on the shoulder or a warm hug can be more comforting than any words. If they are crying, simply hand them a tissue and stay with them. You don't need to fill the silence with talk. Just your quiet, steady presence can be incredibly soothing. If they are struggling to speak, you can say, "It's okay. You don't have to say anything." This gives them permission to feel their emotions without any pressure.