15 Things You Can't Do When You Argue With Your Husband

 Don't say, "I didn't mean it."

"Saying this is like trying to use an eraser on permanent marker," says Puhn. "It inflames the situation because your husband will say: 'Yes you did!'" Going back and forth on what you said or didn't say, meant or didn't mean, keeps you focused on the past instead of working toward a solution for the future, which is the goal of any disagreement.