15 Things You Can't Do When You Argue With Your Husband

Don't beat yourself up that you had a fight.

Everyone wants a partner who's invested—and fighting can be a sign that you're both still working at the relationship (a positive thing!). Puhn says she knows a couple is doomed when they say, "We used to fight a lot, but now we raise our hands and walk out." It's not that they don't disagree on things.