15 Things You Can't Do When You Argue With Your Husband

Don't make excuses for why you fought.

There are a million things on which you could blame an argument: a bad day at work, a headache, a restless night. In fact, a University of California, Berkeley, study says that couples who don't get enough sleep are more likely to fight. Still, passing the blame isn't fair to your or your partner. "Fights are about information," says Dr. Golland. "If you're angry, sad or hurt, that's information your husband needs to know."