15 Things You Can't Do When You Argue With Your Husband

Don't keep getting in jabs.

Still reeling from a fight? That doesn't give you the right to mutter not-so-sweet nothings. "Never call a person a name. It's hard to recover from that," says Sussman. So if you fought about your vacation budget, don't say he's cheap when you're looking at your friend's photos from her trip to Greece. Name-calling only "makes him come back swinging with insults," says Sussman.