The bridal shower of the singer’s daughter

Set the date and time.

This is probably the trickiest task on the bridal shower planning checklist—finding a date that works for the bride, the wedding party and close family and friends. Typically, the shower takes place two or three months before the wedding, but can be closer to the big day if that's the only time that will work. You'll also want to decide if the bridal shower and bachelorette party will take place during the same weekend or spaced out. Talk to the guest of honor about any scheduling conflicts, and confirm potential dates with other VIPs.