Encourage the person to take care of themselves by engaging in activities that promote self-care, such as exercise, spending time in nature, or finding a creative outlet. 8. Be patient and understanding: Grief is a complex and unpredictable process. Be patient with the person and understand that they may have good days and bad days. Offer your understanding and support consistently, even if they seem distant or disconnected at times. 9. Remember their loved one: Talk about their loved one and share memories and stories.